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Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts

Children's Television Programming

Why do Americans and television go together so well? We all love it, we obsess over it and we mold our lives to resemble what we see on TV. We all have our favorite stars, shows, movies and games. We all know that technology has come a long way, but it seems to me that the majority of this evolution has taken place in the "television" department. We've seen so many additions to television since the days of 2 stations in black and white.


But along with this television progessive evolution, our children are watching more and more telivision on a daily basis. Most children watch 2 hours of telivision per day until the age of 6. After 6 years of age, telivision consumption spikes to 4 hours in front of the TV PLUS an additional 2 hours of computer or video game usage.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that kids under 2 years old not watch any TV and that those older than 2 watch no more than 1 to 2 hours a day of quality programming.
 
So here's the thing. Kid's aren't supposed to watch TV but we know how convenient it is. Maybe I'm a horrible mother for doing it (or just admitting I do it) but my 1 year old really enjoys his TV time. We spend a lot of time cuddleing on the couch watching our shows. I'm sure he's unaware of the meaning behind what he sees, but he knows he likes it.

Not all television is bad either. There are a lot of great, educational shows directed at children. These shows and movies teach them skills with basic repetition and fun. For older children, it's also not a bad idea to let them see what is happening in the world. Watching (monitored) adult programming can expose children, in a positive way, to the real world. Teaching them social interactions that they can't learn in books. As with everything, it's all about the spin YOU decide to put on it!

My advice is to maintain a "healthy limit" of television time. No one, including adults, should be spending a majority of their time in front of the television. There are limitations, there are some days when we feel like being lazy couch potatoes. But we need to focus on getting our children away from the screens.

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Babys First Christmas Gifts

This will be our son's first Christmas, and like any excited new parents, we've been doing our shopping with zill and excitement. Like many shopping parents, we wanted to find the best deal for the right products. In our search for the most amazing toys for the 1 and under crowd, we have found many great gems. Here is a list of the toys we got, to hopefully give other parents some good ideas.

*these toys are for my son who is 10 months*

1. Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Fun to Fix Gift Set


I bought these thinking that he would love these colorful tools. The "gift set" includes (technically) 3 toys, although the clamp has two pliers on them, I don't think they come off. Both the saw and the hammer have beads inside of them. All three have straps on them so you could have them hanging from other various toys.

2. Fisher-Price Shank n' Go Racecar

Fisher Price Shake & Go Racers - Super Car

I thought this car was so awesome. Even though it says it is for children 3+ I chose to get it for my 10 month old (use your own discretion). I like the fact that it doesn't take much to get it to work. Just a little bump makes it start going. I assume this will be great for kids that don't know how to "work buttons" yet but still enjoy playing with moving toys... especially cars!

3. Fisher-Price Smart Screen Laptop


Ahhh... baby's first laptop! I'm so addicted to mine, and the boy loves to bang on the keyboard, hopefully this will keep him off of mine some. This laptop is really neat. It's bright and colorful and easy to use. Baby will love the bright buttons and want to bang on them a lot. The only thing I don't like about this one, is the screen. It's called "Smart Screen" but personally I think they could have done a little better. It's very basic... think highschool score board, with the lights making shapes. But I'm sure your little one won't notice!

4. Playschool Poppin Park Elefun Busy Ball Popper

The Elefun Busy Ball Popper is one of my favorites of the season. I had my eye on this toy since a few months ago and bought it first thing. Basically, you put the balls into the elephants "arms" and baby squeels in delight as they pop out. Am I sure it's a great buy, not a chance. I'm worried he'll just look at the balls like "yea, well, that's a let down". So... maybe I'll do a follow up review on this product after Christmas!

5. Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Friendly Flip Phone


I picked up this great toy cell phone in hopes to deter my little one from stealing my phone. The Friendly Flip Phone is also helpful for teaching basic playing skills as well as much, friends and numbers. It may also help with baby's speech a few months down the line.



I hope these few items give you some inspiration and insight into buying for your little one. I suggest ordering these items online from Toys R' Us or simply from WalMart. We only have 22 days left till the big day. And with Baby's First Christmas right around the corner, we need to make it as special for them as we can. Happy Holidays!



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All Day In My Pajamas



      Why Pajamas Are Better Than A Paycheck

Raising a kid and not working, only to blog, allows me to basically stay in my pajamas all day long. I'm not going to swear that it's a good thing but it is definitely comfortable.

Who needs to wear jeans and high heels around the house? I don't vacuum in stilettos, thanks very much. It's just not practical in my life. I can't bare to think of myself working in an office and being forced to wear heels all day long.


This is where I get into, what society wants us to be doing with our lives. Does a woman working in an office, wearing heels and skirt every day,  have a happier life than a mommy? Well, feminists have been debating that for years. It's called The Mommy Wars and if you look into it, you will find that there are very different opposing view points out there.

Linda Hirshman is one of the leaders in the concept that women should have full time jobs. She believes that feminism has failed to encourage women to leave their home and work in society. Which is what feminism has set out to do, isn't it? Teach women that they don't have to be just mothers? It's supposed to make society better too, according to Hirshman. More workers in the job force makes the economy stronger!

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My argument is this, I know that 2011 is a lot different than 1960... thanks to women like Hirshman and other feminists. However, I've worked in my teenage years and plan to work in my later years. And to stay at home with my child is truly what I want to be doing right now. I'm thankful for the opportunity to work (however scarce those opportunities might be), but I don't want to. I get more joy from not working. I'm not rolling in dough and I live a fairly normal life.

There are many, many exceptional reasons to stay at home with your babies, while they are still small. I don't think it's a good idea to pop out a child and go right back to work, leaving you child with a stranger. Even another relative. Children do not get the same affection from other people as they do their parents, specifically their mothers!


So, that's why I stay in my pajama's for most of the day. Except on the occasional special outing. Or if company comes over. So, to Linda Hirshman and other feminist leaders encouraging women to get out of the house, back off! Just because your "type" wants to go to work, doesn't mean the rest of us women want to. I like my pajamas, and heels hurt my toes! I understand that you are pushing because you think it's best. However, stop downgrading stay at home mom's so harshly. Being a mother IS a "real job"!



** I started writing this article as a tribute to pajamas. Really! Then it flowed into some weird Hirshman bashing! Anyway, I read this book in college. It's really short, only 150 pages or so. It's so critical and it makes me second guess my decision to stay at home with my son. It's worth reading. It's harsh, but it's real. The theoretical background to her concept is strong and realistic. If you are doing feminist research, get the book.**

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Babies and Gravity

My son is now 8 months old and has finally learned to sit on his knees. He's gone from rolling over to scooching to sitting up and pulling up all in a few weeks. This kid figures things out quick.

Just so you new parent's know, your 8 month old doesn't know what gravity is. All this time you have been keeping your baby flat, probably. So gravity really has no effect on the little cute lump of clay. But by now your baby has gone mobile.


The problem I've encountered comes when my son thinks he can sit on his knees without holding on to anything. He will let go of the couch, table or whatever and just sit on his knees. Most of the time he's okay with it. Then, when I think things are well and good... wham! Baby just topples right over and odds are bumps his head on something.

Keep this in mind when your little one starts pulling up. They are going to start falling now. It's a little bit of a shock the first few times it happens, but then you start to realize that it's going to keep happening. Bumps and falls are all a normal part of growing up, and your children are physically capable of handling it. As long as your child has no extreme trauma, they will probably be fine with just a few cuddles and hugs.

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Radical Parenting


What do you think of when you hear the term "radical parenting"? For most people, they generally assume parents are choosing to raise their children either with extreme force or by being extremely lenient on their children. Either way, we suppose that parents are using some form of an extreme discipline technique or techniques.

Radical parenting, is a new trend that many first time parents are starting to follow. The idea is that children are capeable of learning things a lot faster than we think. While babies and children still need attention and cuddling, it's becoming more common for families to let their children work things out own their own. It's also becoming a more popular trend to teach children earlier in life.

It's no surprise that children are growing up faster these days. With television and technology use at it's all time high, children are soaking up more information than any generation before.

Is it a good idea? Well, that's kind of the point. Parent's are becoming more vocal about their attempts to create their own style of raising children. I'm not thinking that anyone is expecting a 2 year old to be reading Playboy. However, it probably is a good idea to start teaching sex ed. to children at younger ages.

There's no way to stop our children from growing up fast. Unless you are Amish, or a TV-Nazi! And let's face it, we want to keep up with the times!

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What You Should Praise Me For

Read Part One Here

In continuance of the past post. I am going to explicitly tell you WHY I deserve your praise and attention. I'm going to do it in bullet format so that you can skim it easier and maybe remember one of the reasons I'm a G!



  • I have a Bachelors of Arts in Sociology.
  • I'm a fabulous mother of an 8 month old.
  • I'm getting married in May.
  • I'm a girl gamer.
  • I wear hippie gear and do hippie things.
  • Tattoos.
  • I write like a drunk.
  • I love to write even though my talent is so-so.
  • I have expertise in feminism and LGBT issues.
  • I'm a cool ass hippie chick that doesn't let people put her down and walk over her.
  • I'm funny. If you need to smile I got yo shit!
I'm sure there is more. I don't want to overwhelm you guys with how awesome I am cause I'm just too awesome!

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Top 10 Controversial Costumes For Kids

Halloween is for fun and chaos. I've been thinking about what great, cute little outfit I can get for my son for his first Halloween. But I realized, there are some great, twisted costume ideas to get people stirred up. I mean, who wouldn't want to dress their kid up as a bloody hobo?

10. A Child Beauty Pageant Contestant
We've all seen Toddlers and Tiaras and we all know how weird those kids are. The parents are even more fucked up as we can tell. So, for Halloween this year, dress your kid up as one of the scary beauty contestants. Their eyes are so empty!


9. A Pack of Cigarettes or a Bottle of Booze
Get crafty with this one. Of course you will want to remember to add the necessary warning labels.

8. An OBGYN
This is great for boys! And dad can get in on the game with this one as well.

7. An Oompa Loompa
They are so scary. I hate their little orange faces and green, fucked up hair. Putting a kid in a Oompa Loompa costume is just wrong. This category can also overlap with the "midget" category. If you're feeling a little judgmental!

6. A Hobo
Use any raggady old baby clothes or pieces of cloth you can find. Give you kid an empty Pork N. Bean can and put a dollar in it. Tell them to run up to people and claim the government is after them, and ask for money for an attorney.

5. A Midget
Dress your kid in their regular, adult style clothes. Give them a sign that says "little person". You can make them look more adult by adding a wig or a neck tie... or an empty bottle of scotch.

4. Birth Control
We all know that one kid, often scares people into not having another one for a while. Have fun with this idea. There are many options of birth control that you can dress you child up as. I prefer, the condom. These are easy to design into a costume with just some saran wrap. Use your imagination.

3. Play The Race Card

Cover your white kid in black face paint or put your black kid in a Klan outfit. Feel free to test the water with other racial stereotypes.


2. A Transgender
Boys wear girl clothes and girls wear boy clothes. Easy.

1. Lady/Baby GooGoo
This works for girls or boys I guess. If you want to dress your son up as Gaga's male, alter ego. Use your child as a canvas. Any household items will work for this. Pieces of bacon, toilet brush, trash bag. Throw a bunch of crap on your kid a presto, Baby GooGoo

some images from here

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Motherhood is Making Me CRAZY!

I love being a mommy. The joys of motherhood are different than any other great pleasures in life. But sometimes, motherhood drives me crazy. Going from an independent woman taking care of myself, to caring for a baby is a whirlwind of change and adaptation. Sleeping in has become a thing of the past. Sleeping, in general, is a joyous gift.

I find myself performing a variety of "new mom faux-pas". I'm so tired I can barely focus on anything. I tangle my words quite frequently and can be snippy from time to time. I can't say that I've ever tried to answer a diaper thinking it was a phone or eating baby food because I confused his spoon with mine... but you would be surprised how many mothers this happens to.

I've been lucky so far. Nothing terribly embarrassing or awkward. But I must admit I'm nowhere near as sharp as I use to be. Being a mother is challenging. In more ways that we often think.

The best question to ask here is why is it that it is so wrong for women to complain about their kids? Just because they are my offspring, doesn't make them or ME perfect. I would never do anything horrible to my child, I even stand against spanking in most situations. But if I complain the I'm tired or heaven forbid regret having kids, I'm suddenly a horrible person and an even worse mother. But what's so wrong with wishing you could rewind time and wait another 3 or 5 years before your first child was born? We're not all perfect, and certainly babies do not come with instructions. Just because I want to pull my hair out when the baby screams all night or pulls curtains off the wall, doesn't make me love my children any less.

This is such a strong subject, and I'm not even sure where my personal limits are, but we have to cut moms a break sometimes. We can't all be natural nurturers.

A good word of advice is to nap. All new mothers must be prepared for what's to come. Get your sleep while you can. Whenever you can. And always take help when it's offered. It's a lot easy to find a babysitter for an infant than a 2 year old.

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Beyonce's Pregnant


This is so beautiful. I must not have noticed this part when I watched the show last night. I totally ignored her part because I tend to not really care for her music. But, now the whole world knows we're in store for a mini-mogul from the King and Queen of alternative hip-hop and RnB! I caught this video first thing this morning off of FB. My local radio station Hot 98.1 blogged the video. At first I wasn't sure what was going on. "So, she's pregnant." But after the Beyonce annyoance subsided, I realized how sweet this was. The crowd was screaming in excitement. Jay-Z and Kanye and their posse we're so excited. After I realized how happy everyone was, I too felt a surge of happiness, excitement and love. Our royal hip-hop twosome are having a baby! How much  more precious does that get?  

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NOT UPDATING TODAY

Okay, so I may update but I seriously don't feel good today. A nice case of PMS and having a teething baby keep me up all night.... I'm all emotional and whiny today! Maybe I'll find something angsty to post.

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Raising Feminist Boys


A few weeks ago, the SMH‘s weekend magazine, Good Weekend (not online), had an article about tweens. I can’t remember the headline, but it seemed to promise an article relevant for the parent of a child between 8 and 12. Since Chatterboy is about to turn 7, it seemed like something I should read.
But the article was just about girls, so I stopped reading after a few hundred words.
Quite frequently, the blogosphere (particularly the feminist parts) comes alive with indignation about the latest toy for girls, and just how extreme girls’ introctination is getting. I agree, of course. But as the mother of two boys, I’ve found myself reading, being shocked, and thinking how nice it is that I don’t have to worry about it.

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OMFG Period Cramps



Post pregnancy period cramps! They are so much worse than the cramps I had before I had my son. Theres one more perk for pregnancy!

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Baby Fortune Cookie Slippers


These are just too cute. A great baby shower gift!



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Macaroni Baby Boogers

Don't you just love to feed babies? Sometimes that could be a yes, other times it could be a no! While babies, certainly are precious, they can be messy. Especially while eating! My son is 6 months old now and has started eating jars of baby food. We started this with him slowly over the past 2 months or so. He loves carrots, sweet potatoes and peaches. He hates apples! I admit that I do cheat and sometimes put a dash of sugar to get him to like it better.
Trying him on macaroni was interesting. We gave him some of his Nanny's home made macaroni pie southern style. He seemed somewhat interested. So, I decided to try the macaroni baby food from beech nut... Lord, he had it everywhere. He liked it at first but halfway through he decided to put half of it up his nose.Then he got mad and wouldn't open up for any more macaroni. I gave him some of his bottle. Switched back to the macaroni and don't you know he got choked on it. Not in a horrible, deathly choked way... but he seriously puked up all the formula I had just gave him. Poor dear!
Babies are sweet... and soooo messy. And when it's time to eat, look out, I hate it when I have to wash peas out of my hair!

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