Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Children's Television Programming

Why do Americans and television go together so well? We all love it, we obsess over it and we mold our lives to resemble what we see on TV. We all have our favorite stars, shows, movies and games. We all know that technology has come a long way, but it seems to me that the majority of this evolution has taken place in the "television" department. We've seen so many additions to television since the days of 2 stations in black and white.


But along with this television progessive evolution, our children are watching more and more telivision on a daily basis. Most children watch 2 hours of telivision per day until the age of 6. After 6 years of age, telivision consumption spikes to 4 hours in front of the TV PLUS an additional 2 hours of computer or video game usage.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that kids under 2 years old not watch any TV and that those older than 2 watch no more than 1 to 2 hours a day of quality programming.
 
So here's the thing. Kid's aren't supposed to watch TV but we know how convenient it is. Maybe I'm a horrible mother for doing it (or just admitting I do it) but my 1 year old really enjoys his TV time. We spend a lot of time cuddleing on the couch watching our shows. I'm sure he's unaware of the meaning behind what he sees, but he knows he likes it.

Not all television is bad either. There are a lot of great, educational shows directed at children. These shows and movies teach them skills with basic repetition and fun. For older children, it's also not a bad idea to let them see what is happening in the world. Watching (monitored) adult programming can expose children, in a positive way, to the real world. Teaching them social interactions that they can't learn in books. As with everything, it's all about the spin YOU decide to put on it!

My advice is to maintain a "healthy limit" of television time. No one, including adults, should be spending a majority of their time in front of the television. There are limitations, there are some days when we feel like being lazy couch potatoes. But we need to focus on getting our children away from the screens.

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Babys First Christmas Gifts

This will be our son's first Christmas, and like any excited new parents, we've been doing our shopping with zill and excitement. Like many shopping parents, we wanted to find the best deal for the right products. In our search for the most amazing toys for the 1 and under crowd, we have found many great gems. Here is a list of the toys we got, to hopefully give other parents some good ideas.

*these toys are for my son who is 10 months*

1. Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Fun to Fix Gift Set


I bought these thinking that he would love these colorful tools. The "gift set" includes (technically) 3 toys, although the clamp has two pliers on them, I don't think they come off. Both the saw and the hammer have beads inside of them. All three have straps on them so you could have them hanging from other various toys.

2. Fisher-Price Shank n' Go Racecar

Fisher Price Shake & Go Racers - Super Car

I thought this car was so awesome. Even though it says it is for children 3+ I chose to get it for my 10 month old (use your own discretion). I like the fact that it doesn't take much to get it to work. Just a little bump makes it start going. I assume this will be great for kids that don't know how to "work buttons" yet but still enjoy playing with moving toys... especially cars!

3. Fisher-Price Smart Screen Laptop


Ahhh... baby's first laptop! I'm so addicted to mine, and the boy loves to bang on the keyboard, hopefully this will keep him off of mine some. This laptop is really neat. It's bright and colorful and easy to use. Baby will love the bright buttons and want to bang on them a lot. The only thing I don't like about this one, is the screen. It's called "Smart Screen" but personally I think they could have done a little better. It's very basic... think highschool score board, with the lights making shapes. But I'm sure your little one won't notice!

4. Playschool Poppin Park Elefun Busy Ball Popper

The Elefun Busy Ball Popper is one of my favorites of the season. I had my eye on this toy since a few months ago and bought it first thing. Basically, you put the balls into the elephants "arms" and baby squeels in delight as they pop out. Am I sure it's a great buy, not a chance. I'm worried he'll just look at the balls like "yea, well, that's a let down". So... maybe I'll do a follow up review on this product after Christmas!

5. Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Friendly Flip Phone


I picked up this great toy cell phone in hopes to deter my little one from stealing my phone. The Friendly Flip Phone is also helpful for teaching basic playing skills as well as much, friends and numbers. It may also help with baby's speech a few months down the line.



I hope these few items give you some inspiration and insight into buying for your little one. I suggest ordering these items online from Toys R' Us or simply from WalMart. We only have 22 days left till the big day. And with Baby's First Christmas right around the corner, we need to make it as special for them as we can. Happy Holidays!



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From Turkey to Trees

I hope everyone's Thanksgiving went well here in America. I also hope that the rest of the world had a great weekend, whatever you were able to do that was special to you! The holiday seasons can get pretty hectic and I have been so busy this weekend. From turkey to trees I've been running around in a holiday fever.

Last night we put up  the family Christmas tree. I wanted to share some pictures with you guys. Maybe you can get some inspiration for your tree.

We have an artificial tree. It's white and I put a ton of red, pink and white decorations on it. In the pictures you can see some of my ornaments. I choose to use some feathers on the tree as well as multiple strings of plastic garland. Candy canes, snowflakes and of course traditional glass balls.

My Son this Morning

Peace and Love



5 inch butterfly

Feathers

She's an angel with a flashlight?

Candy Garland String



More feathers

Skating snowman (I'm in the ball)


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What To Be Thankful For At A Time Like This




What is there to really be thankful for at a time like this? Something that isn't purely cliche or over done. Times are hard... nobody has a job. Money is hard to come by. People are becoming addicted to drugs, diagnosed with AIDS, cancer. Teens are killing themselves and blowing up schools. What is there to be thankful for? The list of shitty things is pretty long. It's hard to make heads or tales of what's going on out there in the world. Everyone is lieing and nobody can keep a secret. There seems to be no end to this downward spiral of bad luck facing the planet today. Shit, even the polar bears are getting the short end of the stick.

What's this whole blog post about? Being thankful. Well... thanks comes in many forms. Thanks is usually given to a person, but this Thanksgiving, maybe we should slow down and thank ourselves for the accomplishments we have made in our own lives. Holidays can be so stressful. Putting on the "holiday hat" to show your family that you are happy... and are comfortable spending a lot of money on useless consumerist products. But Thanksgiving can be a time of inner thanks and acceptance.



We've all done impressive things in our lives. Lost weight, given to charity, redecorated our kitchen, painted a picture or raised a child. Think about the times in your life when you have been proud of yourself. When you've pushed through when you thought you would fail. Celebrating our accomplishments, especially personal ones, is a great way to show gratitude on such a great day.
When you turn on the news after eating the turkey and watching the game and you see all the hateful things happening across America, feel sad, but remember all of the great things that you have done to better your life and the lives of those around you. We are not all superheros, and we are not expected to change the world... but putting a little faith in your own accomplishments will definitely give you something to be thankful for your entire life!

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God Loves Gays

God Loves Gays

I am inclined to start this blog by announcing that my personal religious path is not that of the norm. I'm spiritual, I pray, meditate, contemplate. I am at peace knowing that I will never know the truth. What I think is and what actually is, is probably two different things! I'm a realist and I know that opinions are like buttholes.

But when it comes to the argument that God hates all gays, I have to snarl and snicker. First of all, "God" hates no one  The eternal being, creator does not give two hoots in hell what kind of a person you are. It is up to the individual how they lead their lives. And whatever negative or positive energy they put out, they will receive again. Hindu and Buddhist religions refer to this as Karma.

Secondly, it is hard to think that homosexuality could possibly be a negative way to live a life. Happiness is variable. It can be defined in many ways and used to describe many aspects of life. Happiness is the belief that our lives (or parts of our lives) are as good as they can be or we would like them to be. "Good"... "Happiness". To homosexuals, happiness is in their choice to love someone of the same sex.

I don't think God is capable of hating, or even "caring" what is it that we do with our lives. It is our decision to be "good". And opinions on what is good differs from person to person. God can't hate gays for doing what comes natural to them. What they are born to be. If God had a decision, I think he would love gays for being organic and naturally who they are. God has Pride!

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Radical Parenting


What do you think of when you hear the term "radical parenting"? For most people, they generally assume parents are choosing to raise their children either with extreme force or by being extremely lenient on their children. Either way, we suppose that parents are using some form of an extreme discipline technique or techniques.

Radical parenting, is a new trend that many first time parents are starting to follow. The idea is that children are capeable of learning things a lot faster than we think. While babies and children still need attention and cuddling, it's becoming more common for families to let their children work things out own their own. It's also becoming a more popular trend to teach children earlier in life.

It's no surprise that children are growing up faster these days. With television and technology use at it's all time high, children are soaking up more information than any generation before.

Is it a good idea? Well, that's kind of the point. Parent's are becoming more vocal about their attempts to create their own style of raising children. I'm not thinking that anyone is expecting a 2 year old to be reading Playboy. However, it probably is a good idea to start teaching sex ed. to children at younger ages.

There's no way to stop our children from growing up fast. Unless you are Amish, or a TV-Nazi! And let's face it, we want to keep up with the times!

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Beyonce's Pregnant


This is so beautiful. I must not have noticed this part when I watched the show last night. I totally ignored her part because I tend to not really care for her music. But, now the whole world knows we're in store for a mini-mogul from the King and Queen of alternative hip-hop and RnB! I caught this video first thing this morning off of FB. My local radio station Hot 98.1 blogged the video. At first I wasn't sure what was going on. "So, she's pregnant." But after the Beyonce annyoance subsided, I realized how sweet this was. The crowd was screaming in excitement. Jay-Z and Kanye and their posse we're so excited. After I realized how happy everyone was, I too felt a surge of happiness, excitement and love. Our royal hip-hop twosome are having a baby! How much  more precious does that get?  

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NOT UPDATING TODAY

Okay, so I may update but I seriously don't feel good today. A nice case of PMS and having a teething baby keep me up all night.... I'm all emotional and whiny today! Maybe I'll find something angsty to post.

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Raising Feminist Boys


A few weeks ago, the SMH‘s weekend magazine, Good Weekend (not online), had an article about tweens. I can’t remember the headline, but it seemed to promise an article relevant for the parent of a child between 8 and 12. Since Chatterboy is about to turn 7, it seemed like something I should read.
But the article was just about girls, so I stopped reading after a few hundred words.
Quite frequently, the blogosphere (particularly the feminist parts) comes alive with indignation about the latest toy for girls, and just how extreme girls’ introctination is getting. I agree, of course. But as the mother of two boys, I’ve found myself reading, being shocked, and thinking how nice it is that I don’t have to worry about it.

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